The Journal

Something to read with your coffee.

For years I wrote a monthly journal about homes, habits and how to live. This is that journal, picked up again and rewritten for life after 50.

Short pieces. No homework. Read one and get on with your morning.

Fay Chapple walking a dog along a garden path
They smell like sunshine meaning Oct 26, 2026

When my youngest, Grayson, was three I had two teenagers as well, and there was no time left in the day for anything that was not strictly necessary. So when a few free h...

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Do not step over miracles meaning Oct 26, 2026

One of my favourite sayings is "Don't step over miracles." It means do not miss what is right in front of you because you were not paying attention.

There is an old idea ...

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Can feng shui help your karma? meaning Oct 26, 2026

The Chinese have an old way of ranking what shapes a life. First comes destiny. Second comes luck. Third comes feng shui.

Some people hear that and decide feng shui hardl...

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Can you want money and still be a good person? meaning Oct 26, 2026

Is money the root of all evil? Does wanting more make you greedy? Can you want to make money and still live a good, spiritual life?

It is an interesting question. My answ...

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Take back a Saturday meaning Oct 26, 2026

It is hard to put yourself first. The phone, the laptop, your partner, the dog, your parents, the volunteer group. The list never quite ends, even after the school runs d...

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You do not need a soul mate meaning Oct 26, 2026

"The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new." That is Pema Chödrön, the Buddhist teacher, and it is a good place to start a conversatio...

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Signposts meaning Oct 26, 2026

A long time ago I learned to follow up on anything that seems to come out of left field.

I do not think much in life is coincidence. Things tend to turn up when they are ...

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Miracles, small size meaning Oct 26, 2026

The word miracle comes from the Latin miraculum, which means something wonderful. Nothing about walking on water or voices from the clouds. Just something wonderful.

The ...

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When you cannot change it meaning Oct 26, 2026

For years I seemed to write about change more than anything else. It kept coming at me, faster and stronger each time, and usually when I was not expecting it.

Back then ...

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Karma is not out to get you meaning Oct 26, 2026

Over the years I have met a great many people who blame their bad luck on karma.

"No matter what I do, I can't catch a break. I just have bad karma."

"I must have done so...

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My father's roses meaning Oct 26, 2026

"In all things of nature there is something of the marvellous." Aristotle said that. I am not much of a gardener, but I think he was right.

When we moved into our home th...

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What makes a best friend meaning Oct 26, 2026

I was watching a show once where a woman was talking about how many friends she had. All of them, she said, were her best friends.

Everything moves fast now, friendships ...

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